Grief lies to you. Grief will tell you that you are alone in your suffering. This conversation will remind you, over and over, that you aren’t. If you’re grieving right now, you might be tempted to skip this episode, but we encourage you to listen anyway. Send it to someone you know who is hurting, and maybe save it to come back to at a later date.

Kimberly Wagner has been on The Weight before to discuss collective trauma, but this conversation is a little more personal. As Christian churches approach All Saints, a day in which we remember and name those loved ones who have passed before us, we need the reminder that grief is holy and sacred, and that Jesus weeps with us even as he walks with us. We need the reminder that our communities of faith hold in trust the reality of hope and comfort, even when we don’t feel them.

Kimberly is assistant professor of preaching at Princeton Theological Seminary and the author of Fractured Ground: Preaching in the Wake of Mass Trauma. Her doctoral dissertation centered around preaching and trauma, and she has seen first hand how disorienting mass trauma to a community and to individuals. 

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Learn more about Kimberly at her website, preachingandtrauma.com.

Buy Fractured Ground.

Read William Sloane Coffin’s sermon, Eulogy for Alex