Holy Chaos: Real Conversations on Family, Life, and the Mess Between

Summer sounds magical… until somebody’s crying over sunscreen, the house is covered in wet towels, and your grocery bill doubles overnight.

In this episode, Larry and Brittney talk honestly about the chaos of summer family life, shifting rhythms, marriage connection during busy seasons, parenting pressure, and why the “perfect summer” probably isn’t the goal anyway.

They also share practical things actually helping their family survive summer with their sanity mostly intact, plus a fun appearance from the older girls.

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Ever feel like you’re not “spiritual enough”?

In this episode, we get honest about the pressure to perform spiritually—and how easy it is to feel like you’re falling short. Whether you grew up in church or came to faith later in life, that quiet sense of “I should be doing better” can creep in.

We talk about the difference between performance-based faith and grace-driven discipleship, and how God actually meets us in our weakness—not our perfection.

If you’ve been feeling inconsistent, disconnected, or just plain discouraged… this one’s for you.

Let’s be honest… for a lot of us, counseling was never presented as an option. It was something people did when things were really bad—or something Christians weren’t supposed to need at all.

In this episode, we talk openly about our own journey with counseling, what led us there, and how it’s changed our marriage, our parenting, and our emotional health.

We also talk about the stigma that keeps people from getting help, the reality of parenting while still working through your own story, and the tools that have helped us grow along the way.

This one is a little more serious—but if you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure where to start, we hope it encourages you to take a step toward growth.

📘 Boundaries (book): https://amzn.to/4c2Rlbw

Balance is a myth—and chasing it might be why you’re so exhausted.

In this episode, we talk about why life doesn’t actually work in perfect balance, how that expectation creates guilt and burnout, and what it looks like to build rhythms that can survive real life instead.

We also share how we handle busy seasons and a few simple practices that have helped us stay grounded emotionally and spiritually.

If you feel overwhelmed, behind, or just tired… this one’s for you.

👉 Processing Styles Workbook: https://bit.ly/3NLZsQ7

Raising Kids With a Healthy Faith How do you raise kids with a healthy faith when your own spiritual rhythms aren’t perfect? In this episode of Holy Chaos, Larry and Brittney talk honestly about what faith formation looks like in real life. Even in a pastor’s home, family devotions don’t happen every night and prayer sometimes happens in the middle of bedtime chaos. They share some of the rhythms that matter most in their home, including making Sunday worship non-negotiable, encouraging their kids to serve, and looking for ways to connect faith to things their kids already love. They also talk about why intergenerational worship (“big church”) may be one of the most important predictors of a faith that lasts into adulthood. If you’re a parent trying to nurture faith in the middle of a busy family life, this episode is for you. Faith grows in ordinary homes — not perfect ones.

Resources Mentioned

• Lent & Easter Family Devotional: https://amzn.to/4t2vgzx

• The Hero Bible: https://amzn.to/4lq8tLb

• Living Room Liturgy: https://amzn.to/4lqWvRm

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Before we jump in… yes, we know. Brittney’s mic had a little meltdown this episode. It’s fixed for next time. Consider it part of the brand. It’s Holy Chaos, after all.

In this episode, we’re talking honestly about parenting — the sacred moments, the exhausting ones, and the absolutely ridiculous ones.

We share stories from raising three girls, the emotional weight no one prepares you for, and the hilarious meltdowns over sock seams and the concept of Monday. We talk about the pressure parents feel, the illusion of control that parenting quickly destroys, and how sometimes the real formation isn’t happening in our kids… it’s happening in us.

If you’re in the thick of it — tired, overwhelmed, wondering if you’re doing this right — this one’s for you.

We also carve out some practical encouragement for struggling parents:

Why repair matters more than perfection

How to pick your battles

Why protecting your marriage matters

And how to play the long game

Parenting isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence. And showing up again tomorrow.

Next time, we’re getting specific. We’re diving into what it looks like to raise kids with a healthy faith — not fear-based, not performance-driven, but real and resilient.

Thanks for rolling with the chaos.

In this episode of Holy Chaos, Larry and Brittney talk about why communication in marriage often falls apart when we’re tired, stressed, and at emotional capacity. They share honest stories, practical tools, and one simple shift that has helped them avoid unnecessary conflict: timing matters as much as words.

If communication feels harder than it should right now, you’re not alone.

Marriage rarely looks like what we expected — and that gap can quietly turn into frustration and resentment.

If you’ve ever thought, “This isn’t what I pictured,” this conversation is for you.

👉 Download the Couples Discussion Guide here: https://bit.ly/46enUzF

January comes with a lot of pressure to feel motivated, hopeful, and brand new — but what if it doesn’t? In this episode, Larry and Brittney talk honestly about seasons when the calendar changes but life doesn’t, and how to move forward with grace instead of guilt. A real conversation for anyone entering the new year tired, overwhelmed, or unsure what’s next.

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Larry and Brittney kick off Holy Chaos by sharing their story and why this podcast exists—a real, unpolished space for marriage, parenting, and faith in the middle of the mess, not after it.