How do you balance holiness, happiness—and horniness—in a thriving marriage?In this episode of Naked & Unashamed, Dr. Stacy and Rhonda Spencer tackle the topic every married couple feels but few churches teach: stewarding sexual desire with joy and without shame.Learn how to communicate your needs, cultivate deeper intimacy, and align your spiritual and physical connection the way God intended.You'll discover:The myth of "either holy or happy"Why horniness (desire) is a holy signal for connectionHow to steward desire without shamePractical steps for fostering erotic language & sacred sexHow communication & mutual agreement protect your marriageJoin us—and share with another couple ready to be Naked & Unashamed.00:00 — The Challenge of Balancing Holy, Happy & Horny00:52 — Why We Must Disciple Married Couples on Desire01:33 — Introducing the 3 H’s: Holy, Horny, Happy02:19 — The “False Dichotomy” of Holy vs. Happy03:36 — Naked & Without Shame: God’s Intent for Desire04:35 — Marriage is a Sacred Space for All 3 H’s04:58 — Let’s Talk About Desire (Horniness)06:27 — When the Body Speaks Louder Than the Schedule07:01 — Stewarding Desire: Suppression vs. Misdirection08:07 — You Were Created for Connection09:04 — How God Designed the Marriage Bed09:29 — Four Practical Steps for Stewarding Desire09:39 — #1 Name It Without Shame10:26 — #2 Sometimes You Need to Schedule Intimacy11:26 — #3 Learn Each Other’s Erotic Language13:14 — The Power of Erotic Communication13:53 — #4 Schedule Sacred Sex (Touch Over Penetration)15:55 — 1 Corinthians 7:5 — Don’t Deprive Each Other Without Agreement16:28 — How to Communicate Needs with Mutual Agreement17:15 — Don’t Weaponize Sex—Worship God Through Unity18:11 — Breaking Down Happy, Holy, and Horny19:05 — The Power of Self-Love and Knowing What Pleases You19:52 — Why All 3 Need to Be in Balance20:26 — Marriage Thrives with Communication, Priority & Connection21:12 — Final Reflections: Don’t Let Shame Win21:33 — Speak Up: Marriage Is Not About Suffering in Silence22:03 — Takeaway Questions for Reflection24:17 — How to Connect with Our Coaching Community25:22 — Final Blessing: Be Holy, Be Happy, Be HornyAre you ready to take your Love, Marriage Sex to the next level? Tune in to our Love and Marriage podcast to hear experts discuss all things relationship-related! Learn real secrets, tips, and tricks to help you feel the love. Join us Every Monday at 7pm. 💞 #LoveAndMarriage #love #marriage #relationship #marriage #marriedlife #marriagegoals #love #podcastwww.TheEdenCircle.comThe Eden Circle is an exclusive membership in the inner circle of Dr. Stacy L. Spencer and Rhonda Spencer. It is a select group of married couples who receive coaching concerning intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, spiritual guidance, and sexual healing.