The Refreshingly Normal Podcast with Kēfla and Cree

Homecoming, Cooties, and Side-Eyes


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A perfect-weather homecoming turns into a masterclass on what really sustains us—rituals that root identity, small alerts that protect our peace, and honest talks that make relationships sturdier. We start with the warmth of tailgates, band pride, and the funny near-miss of a fake valet in a brown sweatsuit, then move into an inheritance dilemma that hits harder than expected: a $1.8M house promised to a cousin’s grandson while a new spouse carries most expenses. Is that fair, or just familiar? We unpack late-life love, legacy, and what security looks like when history and obligations collide.

From there, we swing into levity—would you rather fight a horse-sized duck or 100 duck-sized horses—and use the laughter to clear space for practical wisdom. Balance in a young marriage isn’t 50/50; it’s a living agreement. Some weeks are 80/20, some 20/80. The goal isn’t symmetry; it’s teamwork. We share simple, no-guilt self-care ideas that don’t require spa budgets, and we double down on a key truth: say what you need out loud. Mind-reading is not a love language. Along the way, we examine money quirks (random Amazon buys, instruments, the empire of “stacks”), and how to budget with compassion for curiosity and comfort.

We close with side eyes and gratitude: a loud boxing guy turning the gym into a stage, a growing cologne collection that somehow makes strangers hand out compliments, the relief of cooler weather, and kids who still love hanging with their parents. It’s a refreshingly normal ride—funny, honest, and grounded in choices that make love practical. If you felt seen, share this with a friend who needs a nudge toward clearer conversations and kinder routines. Subscribe, rate, and leave a review to help more listeners find the show.

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The Refreshingly Normal Podcast with Kēfla and CreeBy Kefla and Crecia