The season promises joy, but for many of us the holidays arrive with a quiet ache. We sit with that truth and offer a kinder way through, exploring how grief and hope can share the same space without asking you to fake cheer or “get over” what still matters. With Rev. Dr. Tamara Brown and guest Rev. Dr. Sharon L. Larkin, we name the many faces of loss—death, job changes, benefit cuts, deployment, illness, distance, and fractured relationships—and show how acknowledging them opens the door to real healing.

We unpack the myths that silence people during a season that celebrates noise and light. There is no timetable for mourning, and anniversaries often live in the body before they reach the mind. You’ll hear how traditions can evolve from sharp pain into meaningful remembrance, and why connection is the lifeline: churches hosting grief recovery gatherings, sharing counseling resources, and creating mental health touchpoints; families asking honest questions about what helps and what harms. Together, we sketch a “new normal” for the holidays that honors limits, protects peace, and restores dignity.

Expect practical tools you can use the moment a trigger hits: name the feeling, breathe slowly, step outside, take a brief walk, hydrate, and lean into short prayers or a Psalm that gives language to lament. We also talk about when to reach for clinical support if the weight becomes too much. This conversation blends pastoral care with grounded mental health wisdom, offering compassionate steps for anyone navigating December with a tender heart.

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