Imagine that you're an exhausted mother at home with two toddlers and a newborn baby. After little sleep most nights, you wake up to a messy house and piles of dirty laundry. Your days are weary blurs caring for little people as best you can.  You usually make dinner, but one day your husband comes home to no dinner, children crying, the home a mess, and you on the brink of tears. Now this is a man who doesn't take excuses. He looks at the results! So, he yells at you, pointing out all your mistakes and all the ways you're not measuring up.