HORNY 4…

A big HORNY welcome to Lorraine of @RAREBEINGDESIGN , a digital content creator & sex educator.

She joins us to answer your questions about masturbation, sex toys for beginners and overcoming shame. Expect giggles, hot chocolate and good vibes x

BOO BITCH! trick or treat?! it’s a TREAT horndogz; another podcast x

This week we respond to a hornd0g sick of online dating, cue the tinder scaries oooOoOoo

Expect dating chat, top tinder tips and Emily's manifestation TRICKS. XOXO

Alright Hornd0gz, you asked for it- LOVE LANGUAGES.

We discuss each one in delicious detail with thots on how best to connect with each love language, what stirs the shit & starts the fights & how to ask for what you want.

Come on in, buckle up and suck it up as we talk BJs, deepthroating & gag reflexes.

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HORNDOGZ... DID YOU MISS US? XOXO

Back with a bang as we talk to a lovely lady about her experience living with vaginismus. We have a very IRISH and open, approachable conversation to the topic which aims to destigmatise this extremely common condition.

We close the chat with a stunning message from loyal horndog, Phoebe, who offers herself up as a guardian angel of sorts.

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H0rndogz, let’s talk about fantasies!

In this episode we respond to a #HORNY4HELP submission about Fantasies. We discuss:

• How to approach sharing a sexual fantasy with a partner
• Things to be mindful of when making the fantasy a reality
• Why not all fantasies need to be shared

For more on the topic...

'Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life' by Justin Lehmiller

If you are concerned with the nature of your fantasies a helpful resource to compare appropriate vs inappropriate / fantasy management:

https://www.stopitnow.org.uk/concerned-about-your-own-thoughts-or-behaviour/help-with-inappropriate-thoughts-or-behaviour/self-help/understanding-the-behaviour/fantasy/

For any unhealthy fantasies you can seek help by visiting your GP who will be able to refer you to therapy.

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To mark Men's Health Week we are joined by a RTT practitioner, Hypnotherapist, and Life Coach

He shares his experience growing up as a man, what led him to choose to specialise in helping men free themselves of past shame, guilt and embarrassment, and how to create safe, healthy environments for men to have conversations about their physical and mental health.

Find Tanguy:

Facebook @free.from.your.past

Instagram @free.from.your.past

For more support you can visit:

menshealthnetwork.org

mates4mates.org

mind.org

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CONTENT WARNING

We are joined this week by Alice Jackson, co-founder of Strut Safe, to discuss the normalisation of sexual aggression during consensual sex. We deep dive into this difficult topic and share the experiences of our followers, which emphasises the severity of this issue. Take care before listening because this is a tough one. If you have been affected by anything mentioned in this episode, you are not alone.

Find Support:

• Women's Aid

• Male Survivors Partnership

• 24 Hour Freephone National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 08082000247

• Rape Crisis national Freephone: 08088029999, operates between 12:00 pm - 2:30 pm and 7:oo pm - 9:30 pm every day

• Black Minds Matter UK

• The Trevor Project

• Exit UK

• Survivors UK

To read the article referenced in the podcast:

https://www.researchgate.net/profile/JohnFoubert/publication/318391559

The Public Health Harms of Pornography The Brain Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual_Violence /links/59e603040f7e9b0e1ab2660f/The-Public-Health-Harms-of-Pornography-The-Brain-Erectile-Dysfunction-and-Sexual-Violence.pdf

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We kick off our silly little chat with a question about how to make sex positive conversations comfortable for everyone & tackle a large worry for many : WHY CAN'T I CUM???

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OUR PODCAST DEBUT IS HERE HORNDOGZ!

We received a #HORNY4HELP anonymous submission which sparked an important conversation:

"I recently split up with my partner, one thing that happened in our relationship was that during lock-down I acted in a way that made her feel pressured into sex and intimacy, I fucked up, I wasn't in a good place, and I attached all my need for validation to spending every moment of everyday with her because that meant she loved me and I was cared for, I fucked up and I know that, I've apologised and have tried to listen, learn and get better off the back of this, but I'm wandering if you have any more advice or any more for me or men like me?"

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