Ray J stated, “I've sat in the shadows for over 14 years allowing the Kardashian to use my name, to abuse my name, make billions of dollars over a decade-and-a-half talking about a topic I've never really spoken about.” Jo Marie Payton, who starred as Harriette Winslow on Family Matters, is recalling an alleged incident w her and then co-star Jaleel White. In an interview with Entertainment Tonight, she alleges she once had an encounter with White — who played Steve Urkel — that nearly turned physical.