I get it. If you've been hurt before from a church, a pastor,or an usher and for some reason your feelings got crushed .The very next thing you want to do is leave the church ....well it's not good to do because if your favorite retail place did not give you good customer service you give them another try and so on and so forth in many other ways of life You see, what people don't understand is when God blesses you in their path to bless them. They think later on its OK to keep the blessing and lose you.