Understanding trauma as a partner can be really hard. You think, "How could he do this to me?" You were building a life together one minute, and now you are here. You don't understand and here are a few reasons why:

1. Because you are good. You would have never thought to betray anyone (especially your partner or significant other) in this way.

2. You value people and their souls and process relationally.

3. You are mature and have personal relationships.

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