How Do You Get Out Of Expensive "Destination Weddings?" Now that uber expensive destination weddings are a "thing," how do you decide which ones you're going to? The Todd and I were invited to a friend's wedding in India (she's lives here in Utah) and she was not happy when we explained we couldn't make it. How do you get out of spending thousands of dollars on a friend's "destination wedding." Todd is learning to just about everything he wants to eat on his "low carb" diet is not, in fact, "low carb." And why your tax return is going to be about 10% less than you were planning on. Sorry.