One of the tools I use I learned from a friend who went to AA. They have a rule that you can make amends when it will cause no harm to you or the others person. 

I liked this rule, in some cases. In other situations I did not like this rule because I desired closure from the situation. We have moments in life and circumstance that we must move on from without receiving closure the way we want it. 

Know what you are willing to go through for your closure. Let go of what will hinder your growth by assessing if it was for a reason, season, or life time. 

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