When do you know when you are healed from the wounds or heartbreak of your past? You will know when you are able to see your Ex-spouse or ex-boyfriend/girlfriend, and have no emotions. You are actually able to speak cordially to one another, and wish each other the best. You will not have ill will towards each other.

You will be able to move on with life and not focus on the past relationships that did you harm. You will be able to do things with friends that may have reminded you of your old relationship, such as going to different restaurants, parks, and activities, and it will no longer affect you emotionally.

There are also different relationship dynamics that you need to be healed from, such as best friend relationships that may have ended and that is very painful. You will go through a grieving process. Especially with someone that you have grown up with for years and now for some reason the relationship ends and you go in different directions.

There is also the wounds or heartbreak that come from the loss of a loved one. You will go through the grieving process with that as well, it's not an overnight process or a microwaved process. I know for me it took me over 20+ years to get through the process of grieving the loss of my daughter. I finally got to a place that I wasn't down or crying and constantly thinking about what she would be like, and it just happened. I found myself in the month of June and said hey, I missed Danielle's birthday this year, not that I forgot about my babygirl, but that I was past the pain of losing her and finally accepted that she didn't make it.

What I would say to you the listener is to focus on yourself, ask yourself where do you feel broken and ask God to heal your heart. I know first hand that God will heal your wounds.