How do you, self-care?

I Don't do well with self-care because I have so much to accomplish in a small amount of time.

If I choose me, maybe someone/something more important should have been done during this time of relaxation.

Or perhaps relaxing has postponed an opportunity, that will never come again.

My kid, husband, dog and hamster needs me more than I need myself at times.

My job, activism, PTA is more important because I'm making a difference.

But what about me?

What is a mother to do, when life is happening?

How do you, self-care?