With the right language a victim can stop a bully. A child needs coaching and some rehearsal in order to come up with the right words at the right time. Teachers and parents need to take the initiative and begin to help their student's/children develop those words that can defuse and deflect a bully's advances. This episode goes over some of the language necessary to build resilience and confidence. I have include a link for my listeners to a product called Comeback Cards. These cards can be posted around the room or shared virtually with your students to help them begin to make the language part of their vocabulary. I have also attached a YouTube video by Brook Gibbs titled How To Stop A Bully. Enjoy the podcast. 

Comeback Cards

How To Stop A Bully

Trauma Stories

The Bully Proof Classroom