Success, says the dictionary, is "the degree or measure of succeeding," or "the attainment of wealth, favor, or eminence."  It's the latter definition which is the one our kids embrace.  Success is the shiny new car, the most sophisticated computer, the Rolex watch--or at least something stylish and better than the Timex variety.  It often includes a beautiful girl on your arm, or a handsome guy who has the looks and the car to match.