What do you do when logic and love feel like they're living in different homes?

You’ve read the books. Tried the tools. Listened to the podcasts. However, the same push-pull dynamics keep resurfacing.

This is part 2 of Juliana’s interview with our Bring Him Closer Lab client, Erin, and her partner, Evan, on what they achieved in their relationship within just 5 months.

You'll get a front row seat to how they navigated opposite conflict styles, deep triggers, emotional shutdowns, and even those “should we still be together?” moments — and rewired their relationship from the inside out.

If you've ever struggled to name your feelings, felt like you're too emotional (or not emotional enough), or found yourself stuck in the “fight or flight” spiral… this episode will land deeply in your nervous system.

This episode is for you if:

• You're in a relationship that feels more like a roommate situation
• You're doing all the “healing work” but still feel something is missing in your love life
• You and your partner love each other, but can’t get on the same page.

In this episode, you’ll hear a candid, powerful conversation with Erin and Evan — a couple who didn’t let their differences break the bond, but they transformed through them.

Erin and Evan's work is centered on supporting individuals who are ready to elevate their personal, relational, and professional lives through immersive, one-on-one experiences and curated group workshops. While their private coaching offerings aren’t publicly promoted yet, they invite curious listeners to reach out directly for more information.

Erin continues to integrate the energetic tools from the Bring Him Closer Lab into both her relationship and her leadership—and this episode highlights the real-time evolution of that journey.

Click play to hear all of this and:

• 00:00 Introduction and Reflection
• 00:08 Exceptional Transformation
• 03:22 Coping Mechanisms and Challenges
• 04:47 Intense Conversations and Different Approaches
• 06:35 Conflict Resolution and Opposite Spectrums
• 10:04 Emotional Awareness and Communication
• 11:51 Energetic Dynamics and Relationship Balance
• 17:12 Naming Emotions and Addressing Issues
• 23:00 Leadership and Surrender
• 25:09 The Struggle of Surrendering Control
• 26:26 Exploring Romantic Feelings
• 27:48 Different Approaches to Relationship Goals
• 30:07 The Impact of Cupid's Poisoned Arrow
• 30:52 Understanding Mating vs. Bonding Programs
• 33:43 Energetic Dynamics in Modern Relationships
• 36:11 Navigating Temptation and Commitment
• 41:38 Transitioning to Intuitive Coaching
• 47:24 The Importance of Self-Awareness
• 50:08 Final Thoughts and Future Plans

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow

Guests Resources:

Visit: www.mindfixgroup.com

Connect with Erin on LinkedIn 

Connect with Evan on LinkedIn