Do our kids really need outside validation to succeed?

From gold stars and grades to praise and awards, children are constantly taught to measure their worth by how others respond to them. But what if this obsession with external validation is quietly undermining their confidence, resilience, and long-term success?

In this episode of Foundations of Learning, we explore why so many kids—and adults—crave approval, how the school system reinforces extrinsic motivation, and what research actually says about building true confidence from within.

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