Are there lots of complaints in your relationship?

In this solo podcast, I talk about how we should look at complaints, and what is the healthy masculine response.  Complaining is a bid for one person to communicate a deeper sense of pain within themselves to another person.  When we understand how to receive complaints, and the proper lens to look at them through, dealing with complaints gets so much easier.  People complain as a means to connect and if we understand the need for connection, complaints are easy to roll with.

If you want to protect your relationship, you have to develop a new paradigm of criticism and complaints.