This week, we're answering the age old question that many of you asked over on Instagram: how long should you wait to sleep with a guy? Is there a perfect number of dates? Does it doom the relationship to put out after a first date? Plus, we're talking about how p*rn impacts our sex and dating lives and I'm telling the story of when I shamed two dudes on the train.

Studies mentioned in this episode:

1. Devastatingly pervasive: 1 in 3 women globally experience violence

2. Aggression and sexual behavior in best-selling pornography videos: a content analysis update

3. Porn can foster sexist attitudes 

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