What if your family background feels like something you’ve had to escape—like you came from bad cloth—and now you’re trying to build a life from something new? 🧵

That’s the story behind this week’s email—from a man who cut ties with his manipulative, chaotic family and is now dating a woman whose family seems to have it all together.

Respectable. Traditional. “Good cloth.”

But the longer he’s around them, the more he notices the snags.

Microaggressions. Anti-Black comments. Quiet superiority.

Now he’s asking:

How do I protect my future family from this too?

In this episode:

✂️ Glenn opens up about drawing hard lines with his own family

💬 Yvette reflects on coming from a “cleaner cloth”—and what still gets revealed over time

🛑 We talk about boundaries, bias, and how to protect the culture of your home

📍Plus, advice for having real conversations with your partner’s family—even if you’re not married yet

This one is vulnerable, honest, and deeply relevant if you’re thinking about what you want to pass on… and what has to stop with you.

Watch now and join us in the comments:

Where have you had to draw the line with family?

And what do you want to protect your kids from—no matter who it comes from? 👇🏾

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This week’s email hits deep. A wife writes in, asking for advice on how to encourage her husband to go to therapy to address childhood trauma. But he’s resistant—and it’s not just personal… it’s cultural. 🌍🧠

Glen & Yvette open up about the stigma around therapy in Caribbean communities and how that resistance can impact marriages, healing, and connection. 🇯🇲💬

They also get real about their own journey with therapy—what helped, what hurt, and how they’ve learned to show up for each other while doing the work.

If you’ve ever wrestled with therapy, felt stuck trying to support a partner, or wondered how your upbringing shapes your healing process—this one’s for you.

Tap in, listen close, and join the conversation. 👂🏾💭

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Have you or your spouse ever resisted therapy? What helped shift the perspective?

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Sisters. Podcasts. Beef. And… a flying water bottle?! 🥴💥

This week, we’re diving into a wild email from a listener caught in some serious sister drama. Two sisters started a podcast together, but when one decided she was done, things got messy.

👉🏾 One sister wanted control.

👉🏾 The other was tired of being told what to do.

👉🏾 Then came the accusations—flaky, bossy, better-than-you vibes.

👉🏾 And yes, a water bottle got thrown (missed, but still…).

Now, the sister writing in wants to make things right, but everyone else seems ready to just move on like it didn't happen. So what do you do when the people you love don’t wanna deal with the real issues?

Tap in to hear our take, and let us know what you’d do in her shoes.

🎧 Watch Episode 242 now.

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Are all the husbands out here flopping… or are we just not hearing the whole story? 🤔💭

In this episode, we read another email from a wife who’s had it. Her man’s doing the bare minimum, communication is a mess, and she’s at her breaking point. But after reading a bunch of emails like this lately, we had to pause and ask: Is it really always the man? Or are we missing something?

We talk about how easy it is to misjudge a whole situation when you’ve only got one side, and we get real about some of our own relationship moments where both people thought they were right—but nobody was actually hearing each other.

Tap in for the conversation, stay for the callout—we need more men to speak up and share their side. ✍🏽👂🏾

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Sometimes you gotta move to find your peace. 🏡✨

Last year? Whew. It was a whole lot.

We moved out to the farm thinking it was gonna be this beautiful new chapter for our family… and listen — some of it was. 🌻 But some of it? Straight up survival mode. 💀Fast forward to now — we’re in Fallbrook.

And it finally feels like home. 🖤🌴

We’re breathing different. Living different. Smiling different.

God really knows how to set you up when you trust Him with the whole story. 🙏🏾

Thanks for rocking with us through all the ups and downs.

This next chapter? We ready. 🏁

Drop a comment and tell us — what’s a season you thought would go one way but ended up growing you in a way you never expected? We’d love to hear your story. 🖤

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“My man only brushes his teeth once a week… and still wanna kiss me in the mouth?!” 😩🪥

This listener wrote in with a situation that had us both shook—and honestly?

Sis, you’re not asking for too much.

She’s pregnant 🤰🏾, in PJs most days, not feeling her cutest—and her husband is still calling her beautiful and trying to love on her real close.

The only problem? His breath is breathin’. 💨👃🏽

She’s brought it up, but he says brushing isn’t his focus right now. He’s thinking about bills, baby prep, and just trying to make it through.

But affection without hygiene? That’s a tough love language to translate.

In Episode 239, we talk about:

🗣️ When the “little things” feel big

🧼 Why personal care isn’t shallow—it’s sacred

💞 How to hold space for your spouse and still speak your trut

😤 Navigating love when the vibes ain't vibin'

🎥 Watch the full episode to hear our take—and why we think she’s more than fair for bringing it up.

Comment below:What’s one “small” thing in your relationship that turned into a BIG conversation?

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He gave up his best friend for love… but was it worth it? 💍💔And what do you do when marriage hits hard just four months in? 😬

In this episode, we’re diving into two real-life relationship updates that had us both nodding... and hollering. 😭😂

First up: remember the fiancé who asked her man to choose between her and his female best friend? 👀 Well—he called back with an update.Spoiler: there's a wedding date on the books 💒... but was the friendship loss worth it?

Then, we hear from a newlywed who’s four months into marriage and struggling.They did all the prep—counseling, mentorship, community—but real life ain’t reading like the workbook. 📖💥Now she’s wondering: did I marry the wrong man? Or is this just part of the process?

We’re sharing the truth about what Year One really felt like for us, what kept us going, and how to know when it’s time to press in—or possibly peace out.

Tune in for the real, the raw, and the reminders that choosing love takes work... but you’re not alone.

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What do you do when God is the one exposing the truth in your marriage? 😳💔

In Episode 237, we’re diving into one of the wildest calls we’ve received yet. A woman finds out her husband has a hidden child, a secret past, and no desire to tell the truth—so God starts revealing it in her dreams. 👀

We talk trust, spiritual red flags, emotional safety, and the power of redemption—even when it feels impossible. Plus, what do you do when you’re still in love with someone from your past? Whew. Let’s talk about it.

🎧 Tap in for real stories, real faith, and real conversations that just might hit you right where you are.

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Feeling like you’re always the bigger person in your relationship? The optimist, the problem solver, the one carrying all the weight? 😮‍💨

In this episode, we’re talking about how to handle that dynamic—how to keep going without burning out, set boundaries without resentment, and create balance in your relationship. Because love shouldn’t feel one-sided.

Tap in and let’s talk about it. 💬

Ever felt like you’re carrying more of the relationship? Drop a 🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏾‍♂️ in the comments!

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Is he marriage material? 💍

In today’s episode, we tackle the question of whether emotional connection is enough to build a future. Her man is her best friend, they vibe as artists, but he’s a hermit who won’t make an effort for her social life, family, or future plans. 🧐

Yvette and Glen break down what she should be asking herself and him—and share how misalignment showed up in their own relationship.

🎤 How do you know when your partner isn’t on the same page?

🎤 What questions should you ask to understand if they’re ready for marriage?

Watch the full episode and drop your thoughts in the comments! ⬇️

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