Men are instructed to sacrifice for their wives. They are to wash their wives with beautiful words that remove spots, wrinkles and blemishes. This is a sacrifice geared to the woman even when she has nothing to contribute to the relationship. Women on the other hand are instructed to receive the sacrifice of their husbands and to be fond of, friendly with and ravishing to their husbands. When these two types of loving are practised, family life becomes beautiful.