What keeps us from mourning with those who mourn? This week, we wrap up our mini-series on mourning with those who mourn by talking about the ways misunderstandings, narratives, and bias prevent us from seeing the pain and suffering of us. The story of Mary Ann Vecchio, who was 14 at the time of the the Kent State shooting, reminds us that our narratives often let us down and that our children may be our best guides for growing in empathy for others.