When you first meet someone, it's like you want to place all the cards on the table and yell "this is what I got and if you can't handle it, then see ya!" That's how we feel sometimes but you know what? That's not always the best route to take, or is it? At what point is it okay or safe to disclose information about yourself that you wouldn't normally tell any average person, while you are pursuing a relationship with someone?  Is there ever such a period when what you say cannot be held against you?