What is the first thing we do as children when we accomplish something? We look to our parents for recognition (validation) that we did a good thing.

At while it is true to say that it is reasonable for anyone of us to want their ideas, choices, achievements, or opinions validated by those around them. Validation is part of being interdependent and relying on the feedback and encouragement of others around us

The Problem is when we need   validation from others so much that we don’t feel valued without it.

It is important that we beware that we grow out of the need to be validated.

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