The Legacy of Love: Estate Planning Simplified for Mothers

How One Conversation Transformed a Father-Daughter Relationship—And What It Teaches Us About Legacy


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How do you start a conversation that could change your relationship and your legacy?

Too often, end-of-life conversations are avoided until it’s too late. In this powerful episode, Sara Ecklein sits down with author Yvonne Caputo, whose journey to connect with her father through his WWII stories led to a deeper understanding of love, legacy, and letting go. Through her book Flying with Dad and her work with the 5 Wishes document, Yvonne shows how storytelling and compassionate listening can change everything.

In this episode, you will:

  • Discover how the 5 Wishes document goes beyond legal directives to honor emotional, spiritual, and personal end-of-life preferences
  • Learn how intentional listening can heal intergenerational wounds and strengthen family bonds
  • Be inspired by a story that redefines legacy, not just in what we leave behind, but in how we connect while we’re still here


Listen now to uncover how curiosity and communication can bring healing, deepen connection, and transform both your relationships and your life.

About Yvonne:
Yvonne Caputo has been a teacher. She taught in the Erie Pennsylvania Public Schools for 18 years. She has also been the Vice President of Human Resources at a retirement community, a corporate trainer and consultant, and a psychotherapist. She has a master’s degree in education and clinical psychology. Her book, Flying with Dad, is a story about her relationship with her father through his telling of World War II stories. Her second book, Dying with Dad, shares how she and her dad had tough conversations about what he wanted in the end.

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This podcast simplifies estate planning for women in the sandwich generation - those raising children while caring for aging parents. We cover living trusts, wills, power of attorney, supported decision making, and healthcare proxies to help you plan with clarity and peace of mind. Episodes explore inheritance, probate, fiduciary duties, and the role of a trustee, while addressing decision fatigue, overwhelm, and the emotional weight of caregiving. Rooted in mindfulness, values, and preparedness, we offer practical tools and heartfelt conversations about elder care, end-of-life planning, and leaving a legacy that lasts.

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The Legacy of Love: Estate Planning Simplified for MothersBy Sara Ecklein