Holy Shift

How Snitch Culture Broke the Sisterhood


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Have you ever wondered when women started being pitted against one another — and what caused us to lose our sense of community, sisterhood, and shared power?

For centuries, we’ve been told to compare, compete, and conform — to judge ourselves and other women by impossible standards of beauty, success, and motherhood. But what if that wasn’t accidental? What if judgment and comparison were actually designed as tools of control?

In this episode, Adrienne and Taylor Sappington pull back the curtain on the origins of these deeply ingrained patterns. From the rise of patriarchy to the loss of communal caregiving and the distortion of the word “gossip,” they trace how systems of power rewired women to turn against each other — and how we can begin to heal and reclaim our feminine connection.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

  • How patriarchy evolved into a system of control that divided women and erased matriarchal wisdom
  • Why judgment and comparison are learned mechanisms that keep women small and compliant
  • The truth behind how “gossip” once represented female community and power — before it was twisted into something shameful
  • What we can do to rebuild genuine connection, shared support, and reverence for the feminine today

So here’s your holy shift — stop judging, start connecting, and let’s take our power back.

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Holy ShiftBy Taylor Sappington and Adrienne Irizarry