In this conversation, Monica and Alyssa explore the complexities of marital conflict, emphasizing the influence of attachment styles and the nervous system on relationships. They discuss the importance of therapists in helping couples reconnect and navigate their conflicts, utilizing frameworks like the Life Model and Emotionally Focused Therapy. The conversation highlights the need for joy, connection, and tenderness in relationships, as well as practical strategies for couples to improve their communication and emotional intimacy.A Hub For Counselors We equip therapists, pastors, coaches, and other helping professionals with Life Model-informed training that integrates neuroscience, spiritual maturity, emotional resilience, and relational healing.Our mission is to make this powerful framework practical, accessible, and CE-accredited — so you can grow personally, lead with clarity, and transform lives with confidence.Whether you're just discovering the Life Model or deepening your practice, you're not alone. Welcome to a community of professionals committed to lasting change.