30 years ago Darryl was a PhD candidate in Australia, moonlighting as a nightclub bouncer. One night the boss announced he had hired a female bouncer, given the number of unruly drunk women his crew had to contend with. He assured the boyos she could look after herself. Name was Martha.

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