This episode we’re excited to be responding to a highly relatable listener question.Justin Hensley (@EBMgoneWILD) asked us: “How does one take a compliment? In COVID times we get a lot of “thank you for your service” but even regularly I suck at taking them. Is it an upbringing thing?”

So we’re pulling it apart in the two shrinks way with a chat about why it’s so hard, what issues can be underlying this & how on earth you’re supposed to accept a compliment graciously. To wrap up, it’s things we came across focused on insults - hear which musician gets enough negative press to have a whole research paper written about him and try out some medieval insults.Articles:Imposter syndrome: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5869760/ A conceptual model of compliments: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/344508037_New_perspectives_on_the_praise_literature_towards_a_conceptual_model_of_compliment Self-esteem: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0022103116302943 Backhanded compliments: https://www.hbs.edu/faculty/Publication%20Files/18-082_f96a8202-ccfe-409b-a8ba-0f187bf678e4.pdf Culture: https://benjamins.com/catalog/lic.17.1.06mir/fulltext/lic.17.1.06mir.pdf  and
https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/Thanks!-You-look-rather-dashing-yourself.-%3A-A-of-Melin/edf4b2a346016b846e69850eeba85e4a3c1e3dbf 
TWCAInsulting James Blunt: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0271530920300884 Medieval insult generator: https://fungenerators.com/random/insult/medieval-insult/ 

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Australian psychologists Amy &amp; Hunter nerd out about all things psychology, from Star Wars to Social Anxiety. Listen in for an independent pod with great chemistry between therapists working in oncology (Hunter) &amp; child psychology (Amy). Each episode focuses on a psychological issue, therapy or simply provides an outlet to overanalyse our favourite tv &amp; film characters.@twoshrinkspod 

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We have decided to call time on Two Shrinks Pod as our personal and professional lives have prevented us from being able to regularly produce the show. As we both care about the quality of the work we put out, we decided that if we couldn’t produce something we were proud of then it was time to end the pod. 





















  
  














































  

    
  
    

      

      
        
          
        
        

        
          
            
          
            
                
                
                
                
                
                
                
                

            
          
        
          
        

        
      
        
      

    
  


  





  Thank you to all of the tens of thousands of listeners who had let us into your ears and minds, and for sharing our nerdy sense of humour. Thanks to our collaborators and interview guests. It has been an amazing journey to go on with all of you.We will keep our episodes and website up indefinitely. If you want to contact us, we will keep monitoring our email twoshrinkspod@gmail.com and our twitter @twoshrinkspod until the end of May 2023. Irvin Yalom said “life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death”.Listeners, thanks for making our spark burn that just that bit brighter. We hope yours burned brighter too for having listened to us.Amy and Hunter.

So long, and thanks for all the fish

If you’re a student struggling to cope with exams or a parent supporting one, this episode is for you. Just in time for the year 12 exams, we’ve prepared a crash course on how to cope with anxiety in the lead up, on the morning of and during an exam. 
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  In this episode we cover how to cope:

During study periodsThe night before/morning of an examDuring the examAfterwards if you have another exam 

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  Head over to the School of Movies Podcast to listen to Amy and Hunter talk about the comedy mob film Analyze This starring Robert De Niro and Billy Crystal. We talk about anxiety attacks, toxic masculinity, doing therapy at gun point and the ethical issues of receiving gifts from your mobster client.  School of Movies Analyze This : https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-jbcwc-12d7d2b
School of Movies is a British podcast hosted by Alex and Sharon Shaw who dissect and discuss modern cinema, there is no movie podcast like it and it is well worth a listen.  2SP has previously been on their show discussing 
Inside Out: https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-44rqh-b61ed2Zombieland: https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-66pz9-c3c60fand Mary and Max: https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-mqs5i-eb20efSharon was also a guest on 2SP in last year’s instalment of Shrinks on Film : https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/71-psychs-on-film-3-shrinks-with-a-vengeance/id1236774684?i=1000526171601



Analyze This - 2SP on the School of Movies

This episode we’ve put together a crash course on phobias. We know phobias are on the VCE psychology exam and we have covered the main topics and theories covered in the course. The episode is pitched at Australian year 12 psychology students (and for their parents wanting to understand what this psychology garbage is). We don’t assume any prior psychology knowledge so this means that it is good episode for anyone who want to understand about psychological theory and treatment. Understanding phobias and their treatment brings together a lot of core psychological concepts. Listen in for easy to understand definitions, examples and how it all fits together to understand the case of Ron Weasley’s arachnophobia.





















  
  














































  

    
  
    

      

      
        
          
        
        

        
          
            
          
            
                
                
                
                
                
                
                
                

            
          
        
          
        

        
      
        
      

    
  


  





  We can’t promise we have talked about everything on the exam but it should be a good way to brush up pre exam. 

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01:20		Definitions
13:50		Prevalence
16:20		The 4 P’s & the biopsychosocial model: A case study of Ron Weasley
25:00		Classical conditioning
37:00		Operant conditioning
48:00		GABA dysfunction
51:10		Stress response system
55:45		Cognitive biases
1:01:30		Triggers
1:04:00		Transtheoretical model of change
1:09:00		Treatment

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For episode 81 we’re taking a comprehensive, research driven look at abortion: what it’s like making the decision, how it impacts people psychologically and what happens if you can’t have one when you want to? 
Join us for a discussion of what the research actually says, in all it’s complexity, about how women respond after an abortion.

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  Research (in order of discussion):Introduction:APA Taskforce on Mental Health and Abortion (2008) https://www.apa.org/pi/women/programs/abortion/mental-health.pdf Abortion definition (2019) https://www.bmj.com/company/newsroom/nine-out-of-10-abortions-done-before-12-weeks-in-many-high-income-countries/  Australian abortion rates (2021) https://www.mja.com.au/journal/2021/215/8/estimating-abortion-rate-australia-national-hospital-morbidity-and Decision making:Bracken & Kasl (1975) Delay in seeking induced abortion: a review and theoretical analysis
https://doi.org/10.1016/0002-9378(75)90929-1 Miller (1992) An empirical study of psychological antecedents and consequences of induced abortion
https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1540-4560.1992.tb00898.x Allanson (2007) Abortion decision and ambivalence: Insights via an abortion decision balance sheet
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/13284200701675767 Pereira, Pires & Canavarro (2019) Decision-making trajectories leading to termination of an unplanned pregnancy: specificities among adolescent and adult women https://doi.org/10.1080/02646838.2019.1566596 Leithner et al (2021) Three or less? Decision making for or against selective reduction and psychological outcome in forty women with a triplet pregnancy
https://doi.org/10.1080/0167482X.2020.1750005 Psychological responses following a voluntary abortion:Steinberg et al (2016) Psychosocial factors and pre-abortion psychological health: the significance of stigma
 https://doi.org/10.1016/j.socscimed.2015.12.007 Horvath & Schreiber (2017) Unintended pregnancy, induced abortion, and mental health
https://doi.org/10.1007/s11920-017-0832-4 Rocca et al (2013) Women’s emotions one week after receiving or being denied an abortion in the United States 
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24020773/O’Donnell, O’Carroll and Toole (2018) Internalized stigma and stigma-related isolation predict women’s psychological distress and physical health symptoms post-abortion 
https://doi.org/10.1177%2F0361684317748937 Foster et al (2015) A comparison of depression and anxiety symptom trajectories between women who had an abortion and women denied one
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25628123/Toffol et al (2016) Anxiety and quality of life after first-trimester termination of pregnancy: a prospective study 
https://doi.org/10.1111/aogs.12959 Van Ditzhuijzen et al (2018) Long-term incidence and recurrence of common mental disorders after abortion. A Dutch prospective cohort study
https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jpsychires.2018.04.001 Biggs et al (2017) Women’s mental health and well-being 5 years after receiving or being denied an abortion: a prospective, longitudinal cohort study
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27973641/ Biggs et al (2018) Five-year suicidal ideation trajectories among women receiving or being denied an abortion
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27973641/ Holmlund et al (2014) Psychological ill-being experienced by first-time mothers and their partners in pregnancy after abortion: a cohort study
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27973641/ Sexual functioning:Limoncin et al (2017) The effect of voluntary termination of pregnancy on female sexual and emotional well-being in different age groups
https://doi.org/10.1080/0167482X.2017.1285901 Psychological responses after an abortion for medical reasons:Nazare, Fonesca & Canavarro (2013) Adaptive and maladaptive grief responses following TOPFA: actor and partner effects of coping strategies
https://doi.org/10.1080/02646838.2013.806789 Nazare, Fonesca & Canavarro (2013) Trauma following termination of pregnancy for fetal abnormality: is this the path from guilt to grief?
https://doi.org/10.1080/15325024.2012.743335 Lafarge, Mitchell & Fox (2017) Posttraumatic growth following pregnancy termination for fetal abnormality: the predictive role of coping strategies and perinatal grief 
https://doi.org/10.1080/15325024.2012.743335 Outcomes for women who want an abortion and can’t have one:Rocca et al (2013) Women’s emotions one week after receiving or being denied an abortion in the United States
https://doi.org/10.1363/4512213 Horvath & Schreiber (2017) Unintended pregnancy, induced abortion, and mental health
https://doi.org/10.1007/s11920-017-0832-4 The harms of denying a woman a wanted abortion: findings from the turnaway study
https://www.ansirh.org/sites/default/files/publications/files/the_harms_of_denying_a_woman_a_wanted_abortion_4-16-2020.pdf Ludermir et al (2010) Common mental disorders in late pregnancy in women who wanted or attempted an abortion
https://doi.org/10.1017/s003329170999184x Herd et al (2015) The implications of unintended pregnancies for mental health in later life 
https://ajph.aphapublications.org/doi/10.2105/AJPH.2015.302973 Concluding remarks:Rebuttal to Coleman’s paper https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3699180/ Rebuttal to Reardon’s work https://www.bmj.com/rapid-response/2011/10/31/reardon-response-russo-and-schmeige-misleads-omission-and-commission Quote from Surgeon General C Everett Koop https://www.apa.org/pi/women/programs/abortion/mental-health.pdf The following resources supported our understanding of abortion  legislation and access but were not cited in the show:Upadhyay et al (2021) Barriers to abortion care & incidence of attempted self-managed abortion 
https://www.contraceptionjournal.org/article/S0010-7824(21)00385-1/fulltext de Londras et al (2022) The impact of provider restrictions on abortion-related outcomes
https://doi.org/10.1186/s12978-022-01405-x Faundes & Shah (2015) Evidence supporting broader access to safe legal abortion
http://dx.doi.org/10.1016/j.ijgo.2015.03.018 Reingold & Gostin (2019) State abortion restrictions and the new supreme court
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31166573/ Pierson (2022) Roe v Wade overturned: what abortion access and reproductive rights look like around the world
https://theconversation.com/roe-v-wade-overturned-what-abortion-access-and-reproductive-rights-look-like-around-the-world-184013 

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