"If you don't like your fate, change it..." We hear things like this all the time in the personal development space but sometimes, it's just BS. The person saying it has no idea the struggle you are carrying or how you would do anything to change it, if you could. Sometimes, your reality is going to be an immovable object in your life that cannot be fixed. Your perspective and your response to it remain in your control, though. No matter what you are living with right now or how much you are hurting, your reality does not have to become your excuse. I promise. Here's how.