being single and happy? perish the thought! actually,I was surprised when this topic was requested, In my 20's I spent almost all my time alone and I was happy for the most part. I want to point out that the main issue with being single and happy is the worry about being single, and not in a relationship. You need to be happy alone for you to be happy with someone. Relationships don't make you happy. YOU have to make yourself happy. It needs to be a separate thing entirely from your relationship. You also don't need anyone with you to have fun and enjoy like. Let's get into it.