Disciple Talk with Brandon Werner

How To Be The Father God Wants You To Be


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God designed fatherhood on purpose and He chose you for the role. In this episode, Brandon and Jeremy talk candidly about the pressures, insecurities, and emotional weight of being a dad. Together, they unpack what it means to be the first and best example of God to your children, not through perfection, but through presence, consistency, and humility. If you’re a father (or know one), this is an episode you won’t want to miss.


📖 Key Topics Covered

✔️ Why God intentionally gave children their specific fathers

✔️ The emotional burden of performance-based parenting

✔️ How to respond to your kids with love, not just discipline

✔️ What it means to be “secure in Christ” as a father

✔️ The dangers of inconsistency and how to course-correct

✔️ How other fathers and discipleship relationships can help


💬 Discussion Questions

1. How does knowing God as your Father change the way you parent?

2. What areas of fatherhood make you feel most insecure?

3. When are you most likely to react from emotion instead of love?

4. What does it practically look like to be a “compass” for your kids?

5. Who in your life can help you become a more Christlike father?


📝 Life Application

➡️ This week, take one moment of emotional parenting and pause. Ask, “How would my Heavenly Father respond to me right now?” Then, lead your child with that same love and consistency. Also, identify one father you can encourage or open up to. Discipleship is better together.


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