Self-belief is restoring the belief that you were born with but it got lost throughout the years. And self-love is acceptance. To accept who you are and to love yourself for that. Now here comes the big question. How to believe in yourself when no one else does. I’ve been in the same situation for a very long time. What hurt the most wasn’t just that people didn’t believe in me, but the fact that I also didn’t believed in myself at all.