There have been many times in my life where my confidence was shot.  And most of those times were events that I couldn't control…like getting let go from a job or relationship heartbreaks.  As I reflect on those moments now, I have learned not place my worth and self-confidence on those situations.  The book Ultimate Confidence: The Secrets to Feeling Great About Yourself Every Day by Marisa Peer was suggested to me not too long ago and it has been such a positive influence on my life.  I hope by sharing what I've learned, it will help you in some way too.