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How to Build Lasting Relationships - Insights from Dr. Clarence Shuler


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๐Ÿ”‘ The secret to a thriving marriage isn't a mystery, it's communication! ๐Ÿค” Join Gino and Julia Barbaro as they dive deep with relationship expert Dr. Clarence Shuler. He is the President/CEO of BLR: Building Lasting Relationships. ย 

Learn practical tips to truly connect, resolve conflict, and build a partnership that lasts. ๐Ÿ™ Discover the power of assuming nothing and talking about everything! ย 

This episode is packed with wisdom for every couple.

Key Takeaways:

โœ… In the same way that 'location, location, location' dictates real estate value, 'communication, communication, communication' determines marital strength.

โœ… Understanding Before Agreement: The goal of communication isn't just to get your point across, but to truly understand your spouse's perspective, often leading to agreement.

โœ… Marriage as a Continuous Learning Curve: Just like mastering any skill, building a strong marriage requires ongoing learning and adaptation. Be a perpetual student of your partner, recognizing their evolving needs and communication style.

โœ… Spiritual Leadership Through Initiation (for Men): The concept of spiritual leadership isn't about dominance, but about men taking the initiative in shared spiritual practices like prayer, fostering intimacy and guidance within the marriage.

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Chapters:

0:00 - The Golden Rule of Marriage

0:18 - Welcome Dr. Clarence Shuler

1:39 - A Calling to Connect

4:11 - The Pillars of Marital Success (and Failure)

4:18 - Communication is King (and Queen!)

5:37 - Understanding Leads to Agreement

5:55 - Becoming a Better Communicator

6:45 - The Power of Prayer in Marriage

8:04 - Beyond the Surface

10:14 - Learning the Language of Love (and Conflict)

12:42 - Speaking Man 101 vs. Woman 101

14:35 - Navigating Resistance

16:47 - The Rarity of Marriage Guidance in Churches

17:58 - Don't Just Restore, Rebuild

18:54 - Laying a New Foundation

20:42 - The Ripple Effect

21:11 - The Holy Family and the Importance of Unity

21:30 - Living the Life of Christ in Marriage

22:32 - The Counter-Cultural Act of Serving Your Spouse

23:53 - Becoming a Student of Your Spouse

24:16 - Conflict is Inevitable, Handling It is Key

25:39 - Obedience and Trust

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