If you haven’t  figured it out by now, you can’t change your spouse! But what you can  change is YOUR attitude about them. Things happen in a relationship and  through these experiences you start to build an attitude about your  spouse. It’s bound to happen, some of those attitudes may start to be  negative. That's why I'm going to share with you a plan you can use to  change your attitude towards your spouse to make sure your relationship  stays in great shape.