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We’ve all heard, “put your own oxygen mask on first,” and yet, we still all struggle to do so, and to make space for others to do so too. Choosing yourself sounds self-centered. So why does it allow us to step into service and reverence with so much more presence?
Hakeem Bourne Mcfarlane is a speaker, coach, and storyteller focused on harnessing his story of resilience, honesty, and accountability to help others recognize their power and choose themselves before life chooses for them.
Hakeem isn’t worried about growing pains, questioning authority, or getting real. He confronts life’s challenges with humor, raw truth, and practical frameworks that empower himself and others to be self-centered, in the most Coherent sense of the word!
In our conversation, we dive in to Hakeem’s story as an only child living inside addiction, instability, and silence, not from a lack of love, but from parents who were struggling to Choose Themselves. Becoming and older brother at 10 completely changed Hakeem, as did the lessons learned through athletics, but nothing seemed to be able to break him out of the prison of his own mind.
Facing five knee surgeries, chronic pain, incarceration, and addiction, Hakeem found the thing that finally saved him: himself.
A huge thank you to Hakeem for the time, presence, and energy during this conversation!
Learn About the Choose Yourself Community: https://chooseyourself.info/ Follow Hakeem: https://www.instagram.com/bigdreamhakeem/?hl=en
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Thank you for being here!
Smack,
Reese
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By The Cohere CollectiveWe’ve all heard, “put your own oxygen mask on first,” and yet, we still all struggle to do so, and to make space for others to do so too. Choosing yourself sounds self-centered. So why does it allow us to step into service and reverence with so much more presence?
Hakeem Bourne Mcfarlane is a speaker, coach, and storyteller focused on harnessing his story of resilience, honesty, and accountability to help others recognize their power and choose themselves before life chooses for them.
Hakeem isn’t worried about growing pains, questioning authority, or getting real. He confronts life’s challenges with humor, raw truth, and practical frameworks that empower himself and others to be self-centered, in the most Coherent sense of the word!
In our conversation, we dive in to Hakeem’s story as an only child living inside addiction, instability, and silence, not from a lack of love, but from parents who were struggling to Choose Themselves. Becoming and older brother at 10 completely changed Hakeem, as did the lessons learned through athletics, but nothing seemed to be able to break him out of the prison of his own mind.
Facing five knee surgeries, chronic pain, incarceration, and addiction, Hakeem found the thing that finally saved him: himself.
A huge thank you to Hakeem for the time, presence, and energy during this conversation!
Learn About the Choose Yourself Community: https://chooseyourself.info/ Follow Hakeem: https://www.instagram.com/bigdreamhakeem/?hl=en
https://www.tiktok.com/@bigdreamhakeem
Follow the Choose Yourself Community: https://www.instagram.com/chooseyourselfchannel/?hl=en
https://www.youtube.com/@ChooseYourselfChannel
Follow The Cohere Collective:
https://www.instagram.com/thecoherecollective/
https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoherecollective
For more information, head to www.thecoherecollective.com
To support The Cohere Collective, head to https://www.thecoherecollective.com/support
Follow Triston Morgan, the creator of Making Meaning's theme music:
https://www.instagram.com/tristonmorgan/
Follow Nicole Oesterreicher, the creator of Making meaning's art and podcast cover:
https://www.instagram.com/nicoleocreates/
https://www.instagram.com/nicoleodesign/
Thank you for being here!
Smack,
Reese