Most people shy away from talking to a person who is bereaved fearing that they might open up wounds and bring fresh pain to them. Well, anyone who is going through pain will always need to talk about their pain. Encourage them to do so and let them speak about their departed loved one as much as possible. Allow them to ask questions and answer them according to the scriptures I've given you in this series. The more the bereaved talks openly about their loved one, the sooner they will get healed.