Saying hurtful words like "You're stupid!" or becoming physically violent like slapping or throwing objects -- these are some of the unwanted behaviors our children may show in a heated moment.   In today's episode of The Unscrew You podcast, I'm going to break down for you why shaming or instilling fear can be an "easier" route to correct your child's behavior in the short term, but a devastating blow to your relationship and their self esteem in the long term.   We discuss what to do instead and also shared some example conversations to practice at home!   Are you subscribed to the Unscrew You podcast? If you’re not, do that today.  I don’t want you to miss an episode.  Subscribe HERE!   Want my help with your family? Check out our Secret Podcast, "For the Last Time" - I made working with me the most affordable it's ever been!