Every couple has something they wish were different. But wanting change and actually creating it — in a healthy, God-honoring way — are two very different things. In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer tackle one of the most common and frustrating struggles in marriage: how do you get on the same page when your spouse just won't budge?

Spoiler alert: nagging doesn't work. And neither does forcing, manipulating, or hoping they'll just figure it out.

Together, Bryce and Colette walk through practical, Scripture-grounded strategies that actually move the needle — including the Barnabas encouragement principle, the powerful "shifting gears" analogy, the mirroring technique, and the mindset shift that changes everything: it's a WE issue, not a YOU issue.

Whether your marriage is thriving or struggling, this episode will give you real tools to grow — together.

📖 Key Scriptures: 1 Corinthians 13:1-2 | Proverbs 25:24

🏡 Ready to go deeper? Check out the Marriage Builders Course and all of our resources at [your website]. Until next time — bring hope home to your life today.

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Resources:

Schafferministries.com

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