The One thing she wants people to know about her:No one is like me and my energy is unique to me 

On this episode:

I used to attract men who weren’t available 

I thought I have to do something special to be loved

Enough is enough moment came when I binged drink and realized what kind of life I was living 

When I heard the podcast from Lewis Howes I felt called and ready to do the inner work 

I was exploring how can I shift my thoughts 

The avalanches of free information online really helped me at the beginning of my journey 

I got really clear on what I am available for and what I am not 

Only then I was able to have leaned back and relaxed energy that attracted my man 

I didn’t need him yet I was ready for him 

You get to get clear on how do you want to FEEL with him and in the relationship 

Be honest with yourself and let go of the perfect package you think you do want in man 

Ask yourself what is the need that you want to fulfill

Tap into the energy of a women who is taken 

Practice forgiveness work to let go 

Look for evidence of possibilities 

Love amplifies life 

Being in relationship wasn’t for me about filling any void 

 

What is important to you in a relationship?

Taking care of myself 

Ask: What aren’t you honoring about yourself when you are not feeling well and loving 

Treat your relationship as something outside of you not something that defines you 

Value your alone time 

Have healthy boundaries 

 

Last thing that’s on my heart:

Anything can happen anytime. Let go of the how and remember it takes only one person. 

 

About Valerie:

Valerie Adams is a Dating & Master Coach who helps single women attract healthy romantic relationships and call in their soulmate. 

She is a Master Practioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming and is absolutely obsessed with guiding women to create their dream reality. 

Connect with Valerie on Instagram: www.Instagram.com/Themindfulbabe

 

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