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Marriage and romantic relationships are one of the most challenging yet gratifying experiences in life. There is nothing like real connection, both giving to create a meaningful life together.

It is also one of the most fragile experiences. It needs constant attention and investment. It requires awareness, openness, humility, and care.

There are so many insidious beliefs that will obviously destroy a marriage or long-term relationship.

But there are also some very subtle, common, and sneaky beliefs that can whittle away at connection and eventually destroy a marriage.

In this video, I explore nine of those subtle beliefs that could destroy your marriage. I have observed these in my own life and the life of my clients.

Being aware of the destructive marriage beliefs can allow you to pay closer attention, have open conversations and practice new beliefs that will build intimacy and connection in your marriage.