The Justina Washington Show

How to Detach (It's not about you)


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This episode explores the concept of detachment and how others' behaviors are reflections of their own experiences, not a reflection of you. Justina discusses the importance of understanding personal coding, regulating emotions, and maintaining authenticity in relationships.



detachment, personal coding, emotional regulation, authenticity, relationships



  • Other people's reactions are about their own internal experiences.
  • Your authentic expression may not always be accepted by others.
  • Everyone has unique coding shaped by their experiences and beliefs.
  • Regulating your emotions is key to maintaining authenticity.
  • Detachment involves understanding that others' responses are not about you.
  • Boundaries are essential in maintaining personal responsibility.
  • Practicing detachment helps in dealing with others' discomfort.
  • Breathing techniques can help in emotional regulation.
  • Being present and aware helps in managing stress responses.
  • Empathy for others' experiences without compromising your values is crucial.



  • Detachment: It's Not About You
  • Understanding Personal Coding
  • Emotional Regulation and Authenticity
  • Navigating Relationships with Detachment
  • The Power of Emotional Regulation
  • Boundaries and Personal Responsibility
  • Practicing Detachment in Daily Life
  • Breathing Techniques for Emotional Balance
  • Empathy Without Compromise
  • Authenticity in the Face of Discomfort



Other people's reactions aren't about you. Your expression may not be accepted. Everyone has unique coding. Regulate emotions to stay authentic. Detachment: others' responses aren't about you. Boundaries maintain personal responsibility. Practice detachment with others' discomfort. Breathing aids emotional regulation. Presence helps manage stress. Empathy without compromising values.



  • 00:00:00 Introduction to Detachment
  • 00:00:00 Understanding Personal Coding
  • 00:00:00 Emotional Regulation Techniques
  • 00:00:00 Maintaining Authenticity in Relationships
  • 00:00:00 Empathy and Boundaries

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