It’s actually easier then you think if you are prepared. The reason you are scared is that you aren’t prepared. You will never ever really feel ready to do it but when you’ve got these tips you will be confident in setting up your Zoom date and you will feel reassured in yourself afterwards to make the right decision for you. First get your questions written down. Secondly check him out physically in every single way you can. What he wears, tone of his voice, body language and see what you like or if anything turns you off. Is he asking you questions? Is he genuinely into you? Take note of what he asks. Lastly ask your questions and listen for the answers. Is he being straight up or dodging the answers? Take some time afterwards to write out all of your answers to these things. If anything at all is turning you off then the answer is a NO. You don’t have to try and figure it out. If nothing is turning you off then set up another zoom. Do the same process the second time. You’ve got these tools and remember if you just don’t like being on the zoom you can kindly leave and if you can’t it’s ok to just log off and block their email. It really is ok to do that. Now have fun and let me know how it goes.