Self Centered Truth

How to Drop Perfectionism and Step into Authenticity


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Dropping into authenticity means letting go of perfectionism and just trying to connect to people's hearts. We are not claiming to be professionals or worth your money. We are all beautiful, organized, unaware chaos, perfectly imperfect, and friendship is a polishing, a willingness to let go.

Seeing your blind spots requires swallowing your pride and ego, being willing to look at the ugliness within yourself, not because it is ugly, but because it is unrefined and needs polishing. There is a difference between a dig that comes from a wounded, unhealed place and something that comes from genuine love, and most people are not even conscious of which one they are offering. It comes down to the origin of where it came from.

Triggers are not about what someone else did. The real work is pausing to ask why something anchored right in your heart. Reacting from the mind is ego and justification, and it keeps you on the hamster wheel. Dropping into your heart is the only way off of it, and that takes a willingness to address what is in front of you.

Seeing things from a higher perspective changes everything. When we are in full-fledged ego and trauma, all we can see is our own perspective. Coming from a broader perspective means understanding that everyone is doing the best they know how to do from where they stand, and that leaves no room for malice.

Holding onto a wound as your identity closes the door for grace and anchors it in you. The willingness to let go of the story matters more than the wound itself. The boxes in the back of your heart that you forgot were there will keep resurfacing because until you heal that frequency, it will keep coming back to show you there is more.

There is a field of energy where the word love spoken out ripples as far as the eye can see, and everything you put out is magnetized back to match the frequency you emit. A five-year-old with a camping bear said "bye, love you" in a grocery store, and that kind of authentic, non-conditional love stayed for the rest of the day.

Real power is not bullying, mean-girling, or having the last word. A marathon runner collapsed short of the finish line, and two other runners stopped their own race to carry him across. That is real power, and that is what the world needs more of.

You matter, you matter to us, and most importantly, you matter to something greater. When the heart quiets, the mind settles, and the door within you can open.

CLAIM: I claim love as my power.


Chapters2:45 Embracing Imperfection and Authenticity5:30 Identifying Blind Spots and Polishing the Ego9:15 Understanding Triggers and Heart Connection12:40 Shifting to a Higher Perspective16:20 A Daily Practice for Releasing Ego20:10 Lessons on Love and Grace23:50 Choosing Authenticity over Drama27:15 Letting Go of the Story and Healing Wounds31:30 Developing Trust with the Divine33:40 The Frequency of Love and Ripple Effects34:50 Claiming Love as Your True Power

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Self Centered TruthBy Danielle Crofts and Julie Winder