What does it mean to "paint legs on a snake" and why is it a waste of energy?How are self-love and self-hate connected? Is there a third alternative?Does our advice-based culture reward feeling discontent with one's self?What is the integrated self and why is it so important in modern culture?All this gets answered and more in this episode of Purple Elephant Radio about how to improve yourself without willpower or self-guilt (by shifting to "the integrated view of self").
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TIMESTAMPS:
[0:00] - Intro
[1:27] - "Don't Paint Legs on a Snake" Explained
[2:30] - The Divided Self: What is it?
[6:30] - Self-love & Self-hate: What connects them?
[10:47] - Why is Advice-based Content so Popular These Days?
[13:45] - What Makes it Difficult to Shift to the Integrated Self?
[14:45] - The Integrated Self: What is it?
[17:05] - The Rebuttal Against "The Integrated Self" View
[19:30] - Healthy Eating: From the Divided Self to the Integrated Self
[25:17] - Freewill Vs. Predetermism: How does it relate to this?
[26:32] - Why the One's View of Self Matters in Daily Life
[29:07] - Can You Still Set Goals with the Integrated View of Self?
[30:18] - How Does the Integrated Self Relate to Being Present?
[31:35] - A Metaphor About Gardening
[33:44] - Outro
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