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It might be hard to imagine a world where dating in your 30s, 40s, and 50s is fun, but today’s guest believes it can, and should be! A feminine dating coach with over ten years of experience, Lilli Bewley is joining us today! She has hundreds of hours of coaching behind her and amazing resources available to guide women to find fulfillment in relationships. During today’s conversation, Lilli reveals her greatest learnings about love and the skill of building better relationships. Drawing on her own experience and what she has observed in her clients, she unpacks the different dating archetypes and what each one’s dating life tends to look like. She also talks about the powerful energy we all have the power to emit, and how her partner celebrates that within her. If you want to learn why you might be making all the same dating mistakes, or find yourself in a rut, tune in to hear from our next guest.

Key Points From This Episode:

• Today’s guest, feminine dating coach Lilli Bewley. 
• What Lilli has learned through her work with clients: love is a skill!
• The short answer to the question of how to have better relationships.
• Three movies Lilli learned about relationships from.
• The foundational work of relationships that is not taught.
• Why self-love is so much harder than just buying it off the shelf.
• What the Goddess archetype looks like with a strong vision of what she wants in a partner.
• The problem the Goddess has with bringing that kind of relationship to fruition.
• What Lilli and her clients aim to be: the magnetic woman!
• An early experience Lilli had with her partner where she felt truly seen.
• The energy we all have the capacity to emit.
• How her partner celebrated every boundary she established.
• The four archetypes and how they approach dating.
• How your dating nervous system affects your experience.
• Lilli’s invitation to look within rather than outwards during dating.
• What dating can show you if you are willing to use them as an experience.
• Self-love at the center of everything.
• Why your people will celebrate your boundaries. 
• Where to find Lilli’s workbook, the L-O-V-E Method for free.

Tweetables:

“I’ve come to realize through my development and watching my clients, having an epic love extraordinary relationship is actually a skill.” — @BewleyLilli [0:03:40]

“Self-love for me, is, do your actions, your behaviors, your thoughts, line up with what you think to be true? What does self-love feel like? What does self-love act like?” — @BewleyLilli [0:08:31]

“What I like to say is, dating doesn’t suck, your experience with dating sucks. So the growth is changing your experience.” — @BewleyLilli [0:25:19]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

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The L-O-V-E Method
Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz

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