058: How to Get Your Partner to Change

Husband and wife team Grant and Elena Cardone tackle the subject of how to balance business, marriage and family and 10X them all.

How many people say, “I never want you to change!” to their significant other?

People often ask Grant and Elena things like, “How do I get my husband to change? How do I get my girlfriend to change?”

Elena’s Tips:

1. Write down your goals together.

2. Don’t nag each other.

3. Build on strengths.

4. Work as a team.

5. Don’t try to change them, work on yourself.

Grant’s Tips:

1. Clear up any things you had said in the past, about not wanting to change

2. Figure out why you want things, and make your list first

3. Sit down and talk it out

The old saying was 50/50 and that doesn’t work. Two people bringing only half of themselves doesn’t create a whole. Both of you bring 100%. You go 100/100 every day and that 200% will carry you much further.

Listen to the full episode to hear all of the tips and advice!