How to grow and how to began a relationship with God?...surrounding yourselves with the right people believe it or not it makes a huge difference! yes it's important to have good people in your life but having Christians friends will help you in growing your relationship with God or at least getting to know someone from church. The Bible is also a way to began a relationship with God we as Christians know that God speaks to us through the bible and of course prayer! in prayer we dialogue or began establishing a conversation with God because God wants to spend time with us and prayer is a way of beginning a relationship with God.